Parental Dissatisfaction with Joint Custody
By Trish Wilson, © 2002.
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"The Impact of the Custody Plan on the Family: A Five-Year Follow-Up. Executive Summary.
Statewide Office of Family Court Services, Administrative Office of the Courts, State of California.
Margaret A. Little, Ph.D., Los Angeles County, Family Court Services;
Hugh McIsaac, Directory. May 1991.
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/programs/cfcc/pdffiles/impcus.pdf.
Excerpts
"...studies of families who came to joint custody through
litigation, rather than amicably agreeing to it, suggest that highly conflicted
families may be unable to overcome their animosities sufficiently to make joint
custody a viable option for them."
"The relatively few fathers who sustained a joint physical custody arrangement over
the six years between the divorce and the interview are more likely than
nonresidential fathers to report that they share in making decisions about their
children, are involved in a range of activities with their children, and are satisfied
with both the legal and physical custody arrangement. This finding is consistent
with previous research. What has not been noted in previous research is that the
mothers in these families are less likely to report being satisfied with the legal and
physical custody arrangement than mothers who have sole physical custody.
Thus, in terms of parental satisfaction, any increase in the incidence of joint
custody may have a mixed outcome."
Description of Current Custody Behavior
Turning to the self-reported custody behavior of the families interviewed,
most of the families reported that the children reside with their mothers, and about
a quarter reported little or no contact with their nonresidential parent, usually the
father. However, 44% of the families said that the children have at least one
overnight with each parent each month.
Thus, two very different types of post-divorce custody patterns of behavior can be
seen in this sample. For some families, the divorce resulted in the children being
raised almost exclusively by one biological parent. For others, both parents are
meaningfully involved in their children's lives. It is inaccurate to assume that
coparenting is typical of all post-divorce families, but it is also inaccurate to
assume that it is normative for children to lose contact with one parent following
the divorce. In this sample, both post-divorce custody behavior patterns were fairly common.
Most nonresidential parents and joint custody parents stated they wanted to spend
more time with their children. The only group of parents in which the majority
were satisfied with the amount of time they have with the children were those who
reported having primary physical custody of the children, suggesting parents view
anything less than primary physical custody as insufficient time with their
children. Thus, in most divorced families, whether the custody arrangement is
primary residence with one parent or shared physical custody, at least one parent is
dissatisfied with the amount of time he or she has with the children. In joint
custody families, both are often dissatisfied."
In terms of legal custody, high levels of joint decision making are associated with
high levels of contact between the children and both parents. At least partially as a
function of this relationship, parents who reported the children reside with both of
them reported higher levels of joint decision making than those who reported that
the children live primarily in one of their homes. In terms of satisfaction,
residential parents were more likely to report being satisfied with their role in
decision making than parents who reported that the children reside with the other
parent.
"As
with satisfaction with the amount of time spent with the children, a
small percentage of joint physical custody parents were dissatisfied
with their role in
decision making than among nonresidential parents, but also a smaller
percentage
were satisfied than among parents with primary custody."[Citing Steinman, Zemmelman, and Knoblauch (1985)]
It is notable that fathers rate higher on the conjoint decision-making scale than do
mothers. Across every category, the group means for fathers are higher than those
for mothers. This finding has implications for researchers relying solely on reports
from one parent. It also has implications for practitioners working with divorced
families in that
Comparison of the Initial Custody Order and Current Custody Behavior
Initial physical custody orders awarding the mother primary custody
demonstrate a great deal of stability over time.
The overwhelming majority of others and fathers showed a similar
pattern of contact with the children when they were the
nonresidential parent. No evidence was found in this survey to suggest
that nonresidential mothers and fathers behave differently. However,
the sampling design (i.e., excluding families with initial order of
primary custody to the father) limits the potential of this research
project to assess gender differences in post-divorce custody behavior.
These families reported that the children still reside with the mother at the time of
the interview. Joint physical custody plans show more fluidity; only 36% of those
with an initial custody order of joint physical custody reported in 1989 that the
children still reside with both parents.
Those families awarded joint physical custody at the time of the divorce and who
reported sharing physical custody in 1989 are characterized by the following:
initial custody plans that gave the children equal time with each parent, less
conflict at the time of the divorce, mothers who are not remarried, fathers with
higher incomes, and parents who live in close geographic proximity.
As has been found in other studies of divorced families, these survey data suggest that fathers
awarded joint physical custody at the time of the divorce continue to have more
contact with their children over time than nonresidential fathers. However, in the
absence of information about the family dynamics at the time of the divorce, it is
impossible to know if the initial custody plan itself has an impact on later custody
behavior or if the initial custody order is simply an indicator of other dynamics in
the family that are crucial in determining the father's level of contact with the
children following the divorce.
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